There is a newness to January 1, though, and that is the newness of a new day. Unlike the year, each day is a new beginning. You wake up, and for a second everything is untouched — like new fallen snow — and you almost believe you can be anyone you want to be, do anything you want to do. Then the truth hits you.
Still, there’s hope, so I make daily resolutions instead of yearly ones. I have a list of a dozen do’s and don’ts that I would follow in a perfect world. I’m lucky to do about half of them each day, but it varies. Two days ago I did only a couple. Yesterday I did all but two. Today, of course, I resolve to follow everything on my list. The list includes such things as weight lifting and stretching, walking, writing, blogging, promoting, eating a big salad, drinking lots of water, staying away from sugar and wheat. As I said, in a perfect world . . .
Despite that, I did toast this new year, more as a symbol of newness than the reality of it. I’ve learned that since nothing seems important any more, I have to make something important every day. And toasting the new year seemed as good as anything to importantize. (Yeah, I know — there’s no such word as importantize, but just for today — this new day — there is.)
January 4, 2011 at 11:32 am
I like the Winter Solstice better than January 1, though with all the hue and cry about it, it’s hard to ignore the beginning of a new calendar year. Best wishes for a happy one, and a lot of check marks next to the items on your daily to-do lists.
January 4, 2011 at 5:12 pm
I used to celebrate the winter sostice, too, but I called it “the end of the creeping darkness”. I don’t mind it now, but there was a time when I hated the shortening days — the creeping darkness — and so that’s what I celebrated — the end of the creeping darkness and the beginning of the creeping light.
January 4, 2011 at 7:21 pm
I like the winter solstice too, because it reminds me that sooner or later the sun will return, daylight hours will get longer again, and those of us not lucky enough to go outside between 8:30 am and 4:30 pm will see sunlight again sooner or later.
Any time we need to make a big change is a good time to call it a new years resolution. New years is just a good reminder of that because we have to go find a new calendar and remember to write a new year number on all our dates.
January 4, 2011 at 8:52 pm
I like that — New Year’s resolutions whenever it’s time to make a change. After all, every day is the beginning of a new year.